Same here. Very small home. |
It is and it isn’t. Universities want to create diverse communities. And diversity is about more than race. If one ethnic background pushes their kids into a narrow range of ECs, none of the kids stand out. They don’t want half the class to be violin or cello players and no one with work experience. |
so, unless they have PT jobs, they score low on "personality"? LOL.. GMAFB.... how many privileged white kids have PT jobs and "real world" activities? Do they score low in personality rating? |
the scapegoating of blacks and Hispanics who make up a small percentage of admits and students at both schools is racist. There are a host of factors underpinning your FCPS snowflake’s rejection and to single that one out smacks of racism. |
Does uva or tech have a personality rating in its process? Have they been shown to do what Harvard did? If not why is it relevant here? |
+1 |
It'll be fine. Choose another school and prosper there. I didn't get into a college that I "should" have with my grades, activities, and stats. Went somewhere else and managed to have a happy and successful life regardless. |
Regardless, there is a trend against colleges favoring students with expensive ECs like violin, cello, travel sports, pilots license, high school study abroad etc. |
In State, similar stats to OP.
Accepted into UVA, UMD, Vtech and W&M. I think it came down to ECs, essays and recommendations except for SAT and GPA ( they are not big difference). 60 word essay can differentiate you from the others. |
Wrong. It’s the process getting blamed. |
Then they should apply ED instead of playing the “let’s see how many acceptances I can get” game. ![]() DP |
It’s more: 1. Some can’t commit ED without knowing a financial package first 2. Some apply eD and don’t get in. 3. Some aren’t certain what school they want above all others. 4. It’s so hard now, some don’t want to waste an Ed only to possibly get rejected. Look outside your bubble. |
Not at all interested in the usual excuses. It’s been stated repeatedly: if you apply ED but the school doesn’t meet your financial need, you can decline so as to compare other schools/financial aid packages. If they are rejected in ED, then apply EDII or EA elsewhere. And if your kid can’t decide on one top-choice school but instead wants to play the field, that’s on them (and you). Schools don’t owe *anyone* an acceptance, period. Especially if it’s clear they are not your first choice. Blah blah blah, “it’s so hard now.” It’s hard for everyone, not just your snowflakes. |
Pilot license, travel sports, etc.. are typical of wealthy white families, not Asian American ones. All sorts of people take music lessons. Why do you single out "violin" and "cello"? My Asian kids don't play violin or cello. I'd love for them to, though. |
Great that your son got into UVA - congratulations! But if he had a 4.0 unweighted (i.e., nothing less than an A in every course taken) but only a 4.2 weighted GPA, that means he took very few AP courses, or else his weighted GPA would be much higher. And that's surprising, because UVA wants to see highest rigor in all disciplines (i.e., LOTS of AP courses, absent some hook. |