Orgasm night before FET

[Anonymous]

I have a frozen embryo transfer scheduled for next week.

Our RE said strictly no sex/orgasm/pelvic activity post-transfer until BETA. I intend on following instructions.

However, he made no mention of sex/orgasm before transfer. I’ve anecdotally heard it helps with blood flow. I plan on having sex the night before transfer, but also tend to have minor contractions post-sex. What would you do? What did your RE advise?

TIA

[Anonymous]

I would not

[Anonymous]

Probably fine, but the person doing the transfer will see the semen in the vaginally canal

[Anonymous]

*vaginal

[Anonymous]

My understanding is that an orgasm can get everything moving right then…. You’re not going to still be having orgasm spasms the next day. It’s up to you whether you do or not bit would have no bearing on the next day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My understanding is that an orgasm can get everything moving right then…. You’re not going to still be having orgasm spasms the next day. It’s up to you whether you do or not bit would have no bearing on the next day.

Go ahead and enjoy the night before. Will be fine by FET.

[Anonymous]

We did this after reading it can help aid implantation (no condom since the sperm is supposed to help). Also waited until 10 weeks to start up again because I feared it wouldn’t work, but I was told it’s fine to resume at beta. Good luck!

[Anonymous]

I recall that I woke up from a dream having an orgasm right before transfer and the RE it was due to the hormones in the drugs I was taking. That is the only time in my whole life that has happened. It was my one and only IVF cycle - and it worked.

[Anonymous]

We had sex the night before 2/2 times and 2/2 got PG

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I recall that I woke up from a dream having an orgasm right before transfer and the RE it was due to the hormones in the drugs I was taking. That is the only time in my whole life that has happened. It was my one and only IVF cycle - and it worked.

I called my clinic saying I was worried I was having a breakthrough ovulation and the slightly exasperated nurse told me it was normal

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Probably fine, but the person doing the transfer will see the semen in the vaginally canal

There will be no semen involved.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Probably fine, but the person doing the transfer will see the semen in the vaginally canal

There will be no semen involved.

Condom? It is not needed.

[Anonymous]

There are some (not well done ) studies that suggest it can help implantation. But if your intending to have sex with a male partner I wouldn’t use a condom because they actually think it might be the presence of sperm that helps.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Probably fine, but the person doing the transfer will see the semen in the vaginally canal

There will be no semen involved.

Condom? It is not needed.

Women don’t tend to produce sperm. I guess some do, but my wife does not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are some (not well done ) studies that suggest it can help implantation. But if your intending to have sex with a male partner I wouldn’t use a condom because they actually think it might be the presence of sperm that helps.

Stay away from spermicides and lubes. God knows what chemicals are in those.