Cost of Surrogacy and which state is the best

[Anonymous]

We are in the shared risk program at SG for DE and the only way they will move forward with us if use a surrogate. Does anyone know the cost?

[Anonymous]

OP here meant the cost of just getting a surrogate

[Anonymous]

About 100k all in.
DC does not have "surrogacy-friendly" laws.

[Anonymous]

We paid $30,000 for our gestational carrier. It was more expensive because this was her second surrogacy. You will also have to pay for her health insurance if she doesn't have a plan or if her plan excludes surrogacy. Then there are the costs for counseling ( for you and the surrogate), and copays for all the medical appointments and medications after pregnancy. The lawyer's fee was around $25,000. MD is more surrogacy-friendly than VA.

[Anonymous]

DC now has surrogacy friendly laws. As for the cost an agency will be 18-45k, surrogacy comp depends on state and if they are an experienced surrogate/have surrogate friendly health insurance but I'd budget at least 30k for that, but likely more in the 35-40k range. Maybe 5-8k for legal (you need two lawyers, one for you, and one for the surrogate).

Lots of agencies have cost breakdown examples on their websites, here's one http://www.familyforwardsurrogacy.com/

Texas and California have some of the best surrogacy friendly policies (though California is one of the most expensive comp states). Here's a map covering all US states and their policies https://www.creativefamilyconnections.com/us-surrogacy-law-map/

[Anonymous]

If you’re able to match with a local GC, Maryland is ideal because it is a pre-birth order state which makes the birth certificate process so much easier.

[Anonymous]

Shop around if price is a concern. The surrogate compensation fee is fairly standard but there is a price range for all the other costs between different agencies.