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Sidwell is the same every year.
Legacy (there are A LOT of them), URM, Athletes: They do great and create the mystique of the almighty Sidwell. By the way, this exact same group would have done just as well from public schools. Then there is the rest - about 2/3rds of the school. They have mostly paid full tuition so the people in the first 1/3 group get to go to their first choice school. The rest financed that for group 1. It's such a scam. They wont even show naviance until it's too late. Then you realize: wait, there is no Sidwell bump. In fact, because the people in the first group were already accepted mostly early, there arent many spots left in the Top 25 schools for a normal kid. GOOD LUCK suckers |
Well said. |
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Don’t go to Sidwell for any advantage in getting into top 20, go for the “diverse student environment” and a chance to develop as a “well rounded” and compassionate individuals who will “thrive” in any school environment.
Get ready for JMU and VCU or UMBC or Bowie State. Haha |
They still have a shot at CNU, GMU and Morgan State. |
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Do unhooked kids from NE boarding circuit do better than big 3, ceteris paribus?
If So, why? |
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Wow. I'm just reading this and I'm really confused as to why parents at Sidwell would accept not having your own login to Naviance. And what's with students having to make appointments to meet with the counselors?!
My kid is a senior at Basis DC. There are about 50 seniors. They have a class each day with their college counselor (2 of them) when they get help with all stages of the application process from generating a list of schools to brainstorming their essays and writing and then editing them. My DC's counselor is a really helpful and competent person who knows what she's doing. She reviewed DC's scores and GPA and a questionnaire that DC completed about interests and school preferences, then met with DC and us for over an hour twice junior year to share her thoughts on the types of schools that should get included on DC's list. During the class senior year, the counselors had lots of school reps do Zoom presentations to the students. They also did things like encourage us to sign up for the CTCL sessions that spanned a few days and that was super helpful. Over the summer we had to do some travel, so in June I gave our itinerary to the counselor and she came up with a list of about a dozen schools that fit the criteria for DC and links to them. In the fall semester of senior year, she was available on weekends, especially those before the big filing deadlines. She was even available over the winter holidays for the kids and us parents. I felt bad about bothering her at night and on weekends at first, but then it became clear that she was happy to be of help. We had two formal meetings as a family with her that lasted over an hour each. But our email chains and phone conversations need their own folder in my email box because we have communicated multiple times each week during senior year. And of course, Basis DC gave all of us free access to Naviance so that we could do all the comparison between various schools of interest ourselves and make better use of the counselor's time when we did ask for guidance. I really have a hard time believing that we got all this for free when people who pay top dollar at Sidwell don't. It's just so odd. Oh, and Basis DC does not limit how many schools the students can apply to. I had planned to hire someone to help with the application process, but it turned out that this wasn't necessary since the school provided so much support. |
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Yeah. Wish I had known before we got there. Now too late. |
You post this periodically on DCUM. You are omniscient! You have intimate knowledge of the entire class, their finances, their parents' alma maters, AND their first choice of colleges -- year after year! WE TOTALLY BELIEVE YOU. Also, unless you attended two schools simultaneously, how would you know where the bump is? Do you know the annual matriculation lists for "publics" ? No? Then how can you compare "publics" to Sidwell ? It's gross when you imply URMs don't pay full tuition. That takes a certain amount of balls to say in 2022, Tucker |
But then again, your kid had to attend BASIS. |
+100 Same at Latin. Also for free. Why do Sidwell parents put up with this? |
My DC has the CC that severely limited access to Naviance and it was presented as CCO policy. How were we to know that other counselors were giving their seniors more, easier access? I didn't know until I started reading this thread, loooong after my DC's applications were complete. In hindsight, I could have gone to the head of CC to ask for more, but should the CCO operate this way? Should parents be forced to read threads on DCUM to know what should be available to students and parents? There has been a lot of bellyaching here about the Sidwell CCO not getting LARLA into Harvard, rude, demanding, entitled parents expecting XYZ because "that's what we paid for", etc and I have not doubt that is entirely driven by the DUCM troll army. However, there are some very legitimate complaints about the Sidwell CCO being shared here, not the least of which being the extremely inconsistent level of "counseling" offered by the various CC's. I hope actual Sidwell parents (because, lets be honest, 50%?, 75%, of the posters here have no actual experience with Sidwell) will read the comments of other actual Sidwell parents who's experience differ and extend a little grace to those of us who've found the experience of working with the CCO to be frustrating and disappointing. |
I agree with this 100%. I am a pp who has posted about the counselor severely limiting access and our frustrations. Also, as to the suggestion that parents who were frustrated should have reached out to Lauren about it to get more access...really? First off, I am skeptical that such a meeting would have even been possible to arrange at all, or at minimum without seriously ruffling some feathers. Second, I agree with your take that it was presented as CCO policy. So I would have considered reaching out to her as essentially a complaint about their policy that would have been extremely unlikely to go anywhere, other than possibly provoking a bad reaction from the school. And given the amount of preemptive scolding that class of '22 parents received from Bryan and Mamadou about parents' dealings with the CCO (based on past parents' bad behavior), I think most parents reasonably would have been very reluctant to go down that road. |
Well said. As a Sidwell parent, wish know this earlier |