Why would someone choose Exeter over Andover, or vice-versa

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Anonymous wrote:Exeter is Harkness, which my son hated.


Andover does the Harkness method too. It’s just discussion.


Yeah. In addition to this not being a significant distinguishing factor (it is more central to the Exeter experience and more broadly deployed in classes), saying you “hate” Harkness means you hate listening to others and responding, processing information in real time, learning to be articulate and concise, and making persuasive arguments to support your views. Hate it all you want but unless you’re planning to win Powerball or think you’re the next Zuckerberg (coincidentally, an Exeter guy), those are the skills required to succeed at just about anything.


My son enjoys discussion based learning for English and history classes but for math and science he prefers lecture based. You’re making ridiculous assumptions about how people prefer to learn. Harkness can be problematic at times especially in math where there is no textbook- just read the threads on college confidential from students and parents at Exeter, Lawrenceville and other Harkness table schools. HarknessHogs are frustrating and the teacher can do little to move the discussion along.


Andover and Exeter use math and science textbooks. You sound like a troll.


Exeter does not use math textbooks. Andover does. My son went to Exeter. Andover is discussion based, Exeter is Harkness. Harkness is discussion based on steroids.



Ok, looks like they use problem sets. Basically a textbook they wrote: https://exeter.edu/sites/default/files/documents/Math1-2020.pdf


NP. I don't have a dog in this fight, but I'm a math educator and wanted to clarify your assumption. Exeter math is absolutely not a textbook. Yes, there is a book for math class, but it is a very specific problem set, presented in a very specific order, designed for constructivist, cooperative learning. It is well known in the math education community. Locally, Potomac uses an in-house math program that is structured quite similarly. It is common to hear feedback like PP's son's about this type of math curriculum; it can be great, particularly in the hands of a skilled teacher, but it can also leave students who thrive in a traditional math classroom feeling unsure and confused.


Thank you for this. I was called a troll because I said that my son, who went to Exeter, didn’t have a math textbook. I didn’t have the bandwidth to argue with this poster. I never sat in on his math classes but it’s something I heard about over and over from my son and his friends. Some classes went better than others... it depended on the skill of the teacher and the students in the class. A few bad eggs or a weak teacher and the class was horrible.


I’ll add that he loved Exeter and wouldn’t have chosen anywhere else. He loved the Harnkness table for humanities, Latin, etc. I recall one bad science class his first year but I think that was due to some overeager students trying to prove their value and a weak teacher not able to reign them in. Math, however, was a real issue his entire academic career at Exeter.
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rein them in
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Anonymous wrote:let your son decide?


Son? Who said OP had a son?
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Anonymous wrote:Can’t really go wrong either way. One is an idyllic scholarly community tucked away in the NH countryside, with world class facilities, acres of pristine nature, and the most elite HS minds from all over the world. The other is among the best of the suburban Boston high schools.


What a silly thing to say. Not every brilliant child in the world applies to boarding school.
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Anonymous wrote:let your son decide?


Son? Who said OP had a son?

Okay, let (whatever pronoun the child uses) decide?
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DC just felt "it." They would have attended Exeter if not admitted to Andover but Andover was always the clear number one for them. Both tours, interviews, etc. were positive experiences and DC was excited about Harkness. The campuses have different feels.
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OP - 99.9% of people do not get to go to boarding school. Tone deaf question
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Anonymous wrote:OP - 99.9% of people do not get to go to boarding school. Tone deaf question


99.9% of people don't go to private school at all. Yet here you are on the private school forum.
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Anonymous wrote:Can’t really go wrong either way. One is an idyllic scholarly community tucked away in the NH countryside, with world class facilities, acres of pristine nature, and the most elite HS minds from all over the world. The other is among the best of the suburban Boston high schools.


What a silly thing to say. Not every brilliant child in the world applies to boarding school.


No, but the kids at Exeter and Andover are mostly exceptionally smart. As in, kids who can test out of BC calc in 9th grade.
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Anonymous wrote:DC just felt "it." They would have attended Exeter if not admitted to Andover but Andover was always the clear number one for them. Both tours, interviews, etc. were positive experiences and DC was excited about Harkness. The campuses have different feels.


This was the same for me.
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Anonymous wrote:Can’t really go wrong either way. One is an idyllic scholarly community tucked away in the NH countryside, with world class facilities, acres of pristine nature, and the most elite HS minds from all over the world. The other is among the best of the suburban Boston high schools.


What a silly thing to say. Not every brilliant child in the world applies to boarding school.


No, but the kids at Exeter and Andover are mostly exceptionally smart. As in, kids who can test out of BC calc in 9th grade.

No they are not all like this....
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Anonymous wrote:Can’t really go wrong either way. One is an idyllic scholarly community tucked away in the NH countryside, with world class facilities, acres of pristine nature, and the most elite HS minds from all over the world. The other is among the best of the suburban Boston high schools.


What a silly thing to say. Not every brilliant child in the world applies to boarding school.


No, but the kids at Exeter and Andover are mostly exceptionally smart. As in, kids who can test out of BC calc in 9th grade.

No they are not all like this....


I didn’t say all; I said most.

I went to one of those schools, so I know from personal experience.
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Anonymous wrote:Can’t really go wrong either way. One is an idyllic scholarly community tucked away in the NH countryside, with world class facilities, acres of pristine nature, and the most elite HS minds from all over the world. The other is among the best of the suburban Boston high schools.


What a silly thing to say. Not every brilliant child in the world applies to boarding school.


No, but the kids at Exeter and Andover are mostly exceptionally smart. As in, kids who can test out of BC calc in 9th grade.

No they are not all like this....


I didn’t say all; I said most.

I went to one of those schools, so I know from personal experience.


um... I went to one too and this was NOT my experience. in fact I took BC calculus in upper (junior) year and there were no lowerclassmen.
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Anonymous wrote:Can’t really go wrong either way. One is an idyllic scholarly community tucked away in the NH countryside, with world class facilities, acres of pristine nature, and the most elite HS minds from all over the world. The other is among the best of the suburban Boston high schools.


What a silly thing to say. Not every brilliant child in the world applies to boarding school.


No, but the kids at Exeter and Andover are mostly exceptionally smart. As in, kids who can test out of BC calc in 9th grade.

No they are not all like this....


I didn’t say all; I said most.

I went to one of those schools, so I know from personal experience.


um... I went to one too and this was NOT my experience. in fact I took BC calculus in upper (junior) year and there were no lowerclassmen.


Ok, you didn’t need to explain what upper year is.

I knew several kids in my year who tested out of BC calc as juniors or lowers. YMMV, but it definitely happened.
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Anonymous wrote:Can’t really go wrong either way. One is an idyllic scholarly community tucked away in the NH countryside, with world class facilities, acres of pristine nature, and the most elite HS minds from all over the world. The other is among the best of the suburban Boston high schools.


What a silly thing to say. Not every brilliant child in the world applies to boarding school.


No, but the kids at Exeter and Andover are mostly exceptionally smart. As in, kids who can test out of BC calc in 9th grade.

No they are not all like this....


I didn’t say all; I said most.

I went to one of those schools, so I know from personal experience.


um... I went to one too and this was NOT my experience. in fact I took BC calculus in upper (junior) year and there were no lowerclassmen.


Ok, you didn’t need to explain what upper year is.

I knew several kids in my year who tested out of BC calc as juniors or lowers. YMMV, but it definitely happened.


OK, your previous post says “most.” Very different from “several.”
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