Why is my "Big 3" son obsessed with trashy girls?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What the heck is a Big 3 son?

Most prestigious private schools in DC.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He has lots of friends at school but I can see on social media and recent convos and snapchat it's girls that are most DEFINITELY not private school girls. They're trashy and tacky. I'm not being a snob, it's not even middle or upper middle class. What does he see in these girls? Or are they just easy because they think he's rich? He's surrounded by such cute polished girls at school. I don't get it at all. Is he maybe being rejected by girls at school and the trashy ones are a confidence booster?

private school girls around here are cute in a pale, thin, toned way. the hottest public school girls at that age have way more raw sex appeal. why wouldn't he want to try to bang em?

I tagged a lot of middle class ass in high school ... then I went to Penn and never looked at dirt again. I remember being around girls from back home over my first xmas break and cringing that I used to find them attractive. I'm sure that makes me sound like a prick, just being honest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He has lots of friends at school but I can see on social media and recent convos and snapchat it's girls that are most DEFINITELY not private school girls. They're trashy and tacky. I'm not being a snob, it's not even middle or upper middle class. What does he see in these girls? Or are they just easy because they think he's rich? He's surrounded by such cute polished girls at school. I don't get it at all. Is he maybe being rejected by girls at school and the trashy ones are a confidence booster?

The same reason my adult son is going to the Woman's March carrying a pussy hat.

https://www.pussyhatproject.com/

Thanks for posting the link! I had no idea! I've already got pink yarn and size 8 needles. I'm gonna knit, knit, knit! Easy pattern! Hope your DS wears a pussyhat instead of carrying one!

[Anonymous]

I don't know what exactly a Big 3 son is but I'm guessing it means he goes to some special private school. My public school daughter is poor - we only got off food stamps last spring. She has been volunteering at the same place for years, on honor roll for three years straight, and has a strong sense of right and wrong. She has a nice set of friends. She knows it's wrong to look down your nose at someone based on how much money their parents have, what they look like, or where they live. I hope but doubt, that your son is learning the same values.

You probably think my daughter is trashy. I think your son is the type who thinks he can get away with rape.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm not saying there aren't plenty of private school party girls but they're not ~as~ desperate or plentiful as public girls. My son is at St Albans and he shows me all he public school girls throwing themselves at him. Private girls are just more confident and savvier at flirting ... public girls will legit snapchat my son naked pictures and tell him they give great oral sex. I wish I was kidding. I'm sure there's a gold digging component there too.

Troll

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't know what exactly a Big 3 son is but I'm guessing it means he goes to some special private school. My public school daughter is poor - we only got off food stamps last spring. She has been volunteering at the same place for years, on honor roll for three years straight, and has a strong sense of right and wrong. She has a nice set of friends. She knows it's wrong to look down your nose at someone based on how much money their parents have, what they look like, or where they live. I hope but doubt, that your son is learning the same values.

You probably think my daughter is trashy. I think your son is the type who thinks he can get away with rape.

This. Newsflash: money doesn't make you better, DCUM.

[Anonymous]

My wife is a public school teacher who graduated from a pretty elite parochial school in the early 00s. She says there's no doubt public school girls are more promiscuous than private girls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know what exactly a Big 3 son is but I'm guessing it means he goes to some special private school. My public school daughter is poor - we only got off food stamps last spring. She has been volunteering at the same place for years, on honor roll for three years straight, and has a strong sense of right and wrong. She has a nice set of friends. She knows it's wrong to look down your nose at someone based on how much money their parents have, what they look like, or where they live. I hope but doubt, that your son is learning the same values.

You probably think my daughter is trashy. I think your son is the type who thinks he can get away with rape.

This. Newsflash: money doesn't make you better, DCUM.

And I want my public school son (doing well in the top public school in the DMV, hopefully has a bright future doing something interesting and meaningful to him, but probably will not be a millionaire, and also a kind kid with a big heart) to date girls just like your DD. On the other hand, I would never in a million years let my lovely, smart, kind, interesting DD become rape bait for OP's entitled son.

Class and decency is how you live you life and treat others. Your DD sounds like a class act. OP's son sounds like trash. And with a mom like OO, that was bound to happen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife is a public school teacher who graduated from a pretty elite parochial school in the early 00s. She says there's no doubt public school girls are more promiscuous than private girls.

Amazing how someone can post something about her son's actions and it turns into tearing down girls. Go back to your cave.

[Anonymous]

Plenty of status-obsessed middle class moms sic their cute daughters on rich boys. The cutest girls at Beltway publics almost always exclusively date private school boys.

[Anonymous]

Thank you DCUM: best thread of the week (and it's only monday)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Plenty of status-obsessed middle class moms sic their cute daughters on rich boys. The cutest girls at Beltway publics almost always exclusively date private school boys.

Even if you are trying to be funny this is really offensive. We live in one of the districts you are talking about (Whitman) and the girls are ambitious and smart and are not doing any of what you talk about. They are also probably at least as rich if not richer than many of the private school kids.

[Anonymous]

Because he has a mother who is an obnoxious social-climbing wanna be and it's fun to watch her sweat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife is a public school teacher who graduated from a pretty elite parochial school in the early 00s. She says there's no doubt public school girls are more promiscuous than private girls.

She sounds like an unbiased source.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he'll take a cocktail waitress in a Dolly Parton wig to Prom.