How many 16 year old boys dating?

[Anonymous]

My 16 year old sophomore is dating a girl he met at his lifeguard job last summer. They went to homecoming and have been together since. They mostly watch movies on weekends and walk our dog together weeknights. Occasionally go out to dinner or an activity.

[Anonymous]

My 17 year old Junior hasn’t dated. He’s gone on one-off dates, but never had a girlfriend. His friends all have, I think. He’s tall, funny, a varsity athlete, has lots of friends. But not much of a ladies man, apparently. He has never mentioned being sad about it, but I know he likes girls and would like to have a girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My 17 year old Junior hasn’t dated. He’s gone on one-off dates, but never had a girlfriend. His friends all have, I think. He’s tall, funny, a varsity athlete, has lots of friends. But not much of a ladies man, apparently. He has never mentioned being sad about it, but I know he likes girls and would like to have a girlfriend.

He has to shoot his shot. Put himself out there. He will probably be a genuine good boyfriend too.

[Anonymous]

Both of my boys had gfs by junior year.

[Anonymous]

My 15yo ds has had a girlfriend for a few months and I’m not going to lie, I really like it. She has more patience with him than I do sometimes and is really supportive of him. I think it motivates him to be a better person. He still makes some stupid decisions, but overall I think it’s been healthy. He seems more like his old elementary school self when he is with her and I guess it warms my heart. Does that make sense?

But I am so so worried he might be devastated if/when they break-up. He really puts up a front with friends and not her, so I get nervous he won’t have any support. But ahh young love is sweet!!

[Anonymous]

My 16 yo son is definitely not dating and never mentions any girls, although I’m not sure he’d tell us if he were talking to any. He talks about computers, sports, cars, sports cars…

My 13 yo daughter talks about one single boy every single day and is constantly talking about the upcoming middle school dance. I’m sure she will date before her big brother.

[Anonymous]

Most 16yr old boys and girls are dating. Maybe not always as a couple, but they are dating, hooking up, etc…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I never understand all the comments on here they don’t date. Plenty of them are dating and some start in middle school. From what I observe.

+100

It’s a huge thing to be coupled up at my kid’s high school.

but that's not good. we are talking about dating not "coupling" (sex)

What do you think the teenagers are doing???

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I never understand all the comments on here they don’t date. Plenty of them are dating and some start in middle school. From what I observe.

+100

It’s a huge thing to be coupled up at my kid’s high school.

but that's not good. we are talking about dating not "coupling" (sex)

What do you think the teenagers are doing???

A lot of teens have sex outside of relationships. That seems more common lately, so I guess I rather my teens practice real relationships and communication more than one night stands.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My kids are 17 and 18 year olds have never dated. It makes me sad and worried.

My 17.5 year old girl/boy twins haven't dated either. It's very different than my experience at their age.
They have many friends, active social lives, spend zero time on screens.

I think my daughter would love to date but she can't' quite find the right guy. The popular and adjacent-to-popular guys only want the super hot girls.
The geeky guys date the geeky girls. My daughter and her friends (who are similar to her) are sort of in no-man's land.
My son just hangs out with guys in a pack. None of them are dating (and to my knowledge they're not dating each other either).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My kids are 17 and 18 year olds have never dated. It makes me sad and worried.

My 17.5 year old girl/boy twins haven't dated either. It's very different than my experience at their age.
They have many friends, active social lives, spend zero time on screens.

I think my daughter would love to date but she can't' quite find the right guy. The popular and adjacent-to-popular guys only want the super hot girls.
The geeky guys date the geeky girls. My daughter and her friends (who are similar to her) are sort of in no-man's land.
My son just hangs out with guys in a pack. None of them are dating (and to my knowledge they're not dating each other either).

If your 17.5yr old son hangs with a pack of hetero boys than they are prob hooking up with girls a lot but never dating

[Anonymous]

Yes this is a strange question. Both my teens starting “dating” around 13/14. Beginning it was just the phone and in high school now it’s dates and more serious bf/gf

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I never understand all the comments on here they don’t date. Plenty of them are dating and some start in middle school. From what I observe.

+100

It’s a huge thing to be coupled up at my kid’s high school.

but that's not good. we are talking about dating not "coupling" (sex)

Not it isn’t.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:19 year old college freshman and high school junior. Both boys. As far as I can tell neither have dated anyone. I guess the college kid could have stuff going on I dont know about

My 19 year old hasn’t dated either. I worry when he finally does, it’ll be challenging since he’s had no relationship practice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My 15yo ds has had a girlfriend for a few months and I’m not going to lie, I really like it. She has more patience with him than I do sometimes and is really supportive of him. I think it motivates him to be a better person. He still makes some stupid decisions, but overall I think it’s been healthy. He seems more like his old elementary school self when he is with her and I guess it warms my heart. Does that make sense?

But I am so so worried he might be devastated if/when they break-up. He really puts up a front with friends and not her, so I get nervous he won’t have any support. But ahh young love is sweet!!

I feel the same way. I will be sad when they break-up but I would never tell him that!