If you ghost a guy for a few days and they respond by ghosting

[Anonymous]

If they respond by ghosting after you answer back do you bother still texting? This is on old. Felt a quick connection and we talked future plans to meet up at the first talk but I ghosted him because he said something very annoying thru text. I'm still super attracted and want to see him though. What to do? Haven't heard from him since Monday.

[Anonymous]

What? What is with all these games? You ghosted him -- what do you care what he does?

[Anonymous]

So childish. Manipulative. I wouldn’t waste my time with this scene.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If they respond by ghosting after you answer back do you bother still texting? This is on old. Felt a quick connection and we talked future plans to meet up at the first talk but I ghosted him because he said something very annoying thru text. I'm still super attracted and want to see him though. What to do? Haven't heard from him since Monday.

By ghosting, you bet that he would come to you, giving you more leverage. The bet didn't pan out. That's the way the cookie crumbles.

Also, what did he say? Was it something that conveyed a lack of interest?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If they respond by ghosting after you answer back do you bother still texting? This is on old. Felt a quick connection and we talked future plans to meet up at the first talk but I ghosted him because he said something very annoying thru text. I'm still super attracted and want to see him though. What to do? Haven't heard from him since Monday.

By ghosting, you bet that he would come to you, giving you more leverage. The bet didn't pan out. That's the way the cookie crumbles.

Also, what did he say? Was it something that conveyed a lack of interest?

He kept pressuring for more selfies again and again and flooded me with texts about it. He used voice to text. It got really annoying I told him to stop. He also said I was too pretty to be real. When I answered him back a few days later he was very vague with one liners and didn't ask me how my day was going or anything that conveyed interest. I feel bad for the ghosting though. It's my first time back on old since years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If they respond by ghosting after you answer back do you bother still texting? This is on old. Felt a quick connection and we talked future plans to meet up at the first talk but I ghosted him because he said something very annoying thru text. I'm still super attracted and want to see him though. What to do? Haven't heard from him since Monday.

Ghosting isn't a thing with people you've never met in real life. And it's permanent. You don't get ghosted or ghost "for a few days".

Regardless, you sound immature. Text him "DTF?" if you're attracted to him, and I'm sure he'll respond.

[Anonymous]

What? Why do still want to see this loser. Block and move on.

And don’t feel bad for ghosting, he is the one who should feel bad for being obnoxious. Have some self respect.

[Anonymous]

So you met a typical f-boy on an app who came on too strong and begged for selfies, and you got annoyed like most women would, but then instead of just moving on you texted a few days later because you think he's hot and kind of like the attention even though you also don't like it, but he's pulled back because you didn't send him nudes and he's spending his tiny bit of effort begging other women on the app for selfies instead, knowing that while he's doing he's actually making progress with you because he's backed off.
Girl. If you want to have sex with him, convey that and go have fun, but that's all you're going to get from this guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If they respond by ghosting after you answer back do you bother still texting? This is on old. Felt a quick connection and we talked future plans to meet up at the first talk but I ghosted him because he said something very annoying thru text. I'm still super attracted and want to see him though. What to do? Haven't heard from him since Monday.

By ghosting, you bet that he would come to you, giving you more leverage. The bet didn't pan out. That's the way the cookie crumbles.

Also, what did he say? Was it something that conveyed a lack of interest?

He kept pressuring for more selfies again and again and flooded me with texts about it. He used voice to text. It got really annoying I told him to stop. He also said I was too pretty to be real. When I answered him back a few days later he was very vague with one liners and didn't ask me how my day was going or anything that conveyed interest. I feel bad for the ghosting though. It's my first time back on old since years.

Yikes. He’s full of red flags. And you can’t ghost someone and expect them to still be interested. What a disaster all around.

Go watch some YouTube videos or Tik Toks on how to date.

[Anonymous]

Don’t bother. Anyone who does all this nonsense is not serious about a relationship. Move on.

[Anonymous]

The appropriate response to someone being obnoxious is asserting boundaries not ghosting. But, also, this person isn't worth your time

[Anonymous]

Only text him if you are looking for a F buddy. Period. If you’re interested in more than that, you need to take a dating class to learn to screen out the absolute f-ing creeps and losers. I mean c’mon!!

[Anonymous]

You are both too immature to have a real relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If they respond by ghosting after you answer back do you bother still texting? This is on old. Felt a quick connection and we talked future plans to meet up at the first talk but I ghosted him because he said something very annoying thru text. I'm still super attracted and want to see him though. What to do? Haven't heard from him since Monday.

You sound immature. It is a huge turnoff.

[Anonymous]

This isn’t how ghosting works!!!