I've been seeing this guy for a little over a month. Right out of the gates we had incredible chemistry and we've been seeing each other about once a week and texting (very flirtatiously) pretty much every day/other day. When we are together he is incredibly engaged, says things about planning trips together and how incredible our chemistry is, etc. He's very very flattering in terms of telling me how much he finds me sexy, attractive, etc. The other week he brought up the "where is this going" conversation, which sort of caught me off guard and had I thought that thru better first would have responded more coherently
but essentially we agreed we liked each other and spending time together. For the most part our relationship has been physical, but we've gone to dinner/drinks several times
The trouble he tends to go into these periods of "radio silence". It just so happens that each week either he or I (or both) have been traveling over the weekends and he won't even text me or respond to any texts at all over the weekends. It's really bizarre. Now I'm guessing that this is just his way of telling me he's not serious about me, but I am just struggling to put the two pieces together. I do like this one and would like to get closer but am afraid of pushing him away. He's about 7 years younger than me.
I'm sure I'm just being dense and looking for another answer to what the reality probably is (that's he's just not that into me) but it really does not add up given the way he is when we are together. It's kind of driving me crazy!
Any insight guy?