Anonymous wrote:last night i went on a date with this guy, he was ok looking a bit chubby but had a great personality and he is really smart, we like the same things and our life experiences are similar. He knows some of the people that I know because we are in the same field. I was flirty, he was flirty. We went for drinks and it turned out into late dinner, great conversation, he walked me to the metro and we kissed. The date was a good date overall, so i thought. Usually after a good date the guy will text me that night, no text last night, no text this am, so I went against my rules and I texted him around 10am, no response. ugh...I dont understand, we had a good night, I know he thinks I am attractive and he is not that attactive, so why is he acting this way? anyways, whatever...moving on, but i am tired of this stupid game.
Guys with good personalities who are smart and fun do not grow on trees so why do you think he believes that he is not that attractive. Maybe he looks in the mirror and sees a terrific person who will someday make someone very happy.