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[quote=Anonymous](Continued) she will say with the way you dress? No way. She will do everything in her power to bring me down. So i do not say anything. I just hurt. All the time. I just try my hardest in school to tey and please her. And so when im 18 i can move out. And go to a good college. I dont aske her for advice anymore, on clothes, hair, make up, nothing cuz ik she will say that is to small on you, your hair is stringy, or there is nothing you can do to cover up that pimple. While my sister has full blown out body and face acne. I get a couple pimples like once a month. Sure i try to keep my face clean by washing it and taking care of it. But its hard when your mom wont get you anything to help with that. But she will take her bio daughter to the dermatologist every month get her thousands of dollars in acne medicine, good makeup to cover it, lotions that don't clog pores, the works. She gets her designer shoes and dresses whenever she takes her out. Which is all the time. She does everything for her. I remember when she first started her period, and she took her and got her these nice pads and tampons and wipes to take to school organizing stuff, and washing stuff. Guess what she did for me? She said i was lying. And when she found out the truth she got me some pads, and took her daughter out of town. She is better towards me now, because i do whatever she asks of me. I do not ask for anything. Its sad when you are scared to ask your own mother to get you some pads. Or if she can get you some deoderant. Yeah thts how bad it is sometimes. You never know what she will say. Like what? I just got you some. There is rust onyour shavers? You will be fine. Why did you use so much toothpaste? It an on going thing the worst thing? Is that my sister who is one year younger than me, is going through it now. And my mom expects me to be on her side. And i cant my sister and i are best friends. I love her more than anything and eill do anything for her. It awful when you have to watch her go throught the same things as you. Then she turns to the same outlets as you to get rid of the pain. Sometimes we turn to eachother. Fighting eachother. Other time we hurt ourselves we have to have the outlets without them we will explode from the pain. And you never argue with her. That is just impossible. If i could change anything. It would be that i was an only child. So i dont have to watch her go through this pain. And i know im suffering it still too. But i know i can take it. Its like all these years have trained me too. I dont know if she can she is so fragile. . . Then my mom threatens to send her away. I dont know if i can bear to lose my best friend and last sibling. I already feel so guilty for not stopping her from splitting us up from our brother. Is that selfish? Or is it right to not want her to have to go live in some military camp thing, i know she doesnt want to leave me. Sometimes i wish we could just do what our brother did fake that we are hearing voices ( yeah he faked it) and get taken away, but its too late because we are adoted already. He was pretty damn smart with that. What also sucks is that i cant leave until my sister is 18 that means staying another year, or leaving her here until she turns 18. Then having her come live with me. I think people have such a stereotypical veiw of adoption that they dont look deeper into it. Because let me tell you some people can put ona good front to act like they are happy, the parents, or the kids.[/quote]
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