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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The fact that he had to ask you is already embarrassing on his side and a turn-off for you. No winners in this situation.

There are two types of straight women in the world: those who send nudes and those who don’t. Also two types of men: those who get nudes from their wives and men who wished they had the type of marriage where the wife feels comfortable sending them nudes.

My DW also doesn’t send nudes. I respect her decision, but also know that it’s not within her personality to send them. I know better than to ask, as it would be a huge source of anxiety for her. She would be so nervous about how she looked, if I did something careless with the photos, if they would ever be used for leverage against her…she would spiral.

But I won’t lie - it feels like there is a wall between us. I feel like husbands and wives who swap nudes probably have a more intimate, easy going, trusting, and balanced relationship. You have to be comfortable with uncertainty and/or extremely trusting of your spouse. Lots of people don’t have either of those, even when married.  [/quote]

Ignore this narrow-minded self-centered man. [/quote]

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