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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it's concerning that your fiancé won't explain this to his mother. What is his reasoning for that? Hopefully he is not like the asshole PPs who are doubting the seriousness of your condition? And hopefully he is not planning on making you do the dirty work in dealing with his mom any time you two have to tell her something she won't like? Those would be some major red flags. [/quote] Not the OP, but ... my mother has epilepsy. My father wasn't told until after they were married. His father was VERY angry upon finding out, and I believe the term "damaged goods" was thrown out. [/quote] My MIL is bipolar and didn't tell me until after I had two kids. Nice! Since there is also a history of bipolar in my family and it's genetic, I was beyond pissed. [/quote] There is bipolar in your own family and that did not change your choice to have kids. If she had told you pre-kids, what would you have done differently? [/quote]
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