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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks PP. we are still broken up but I’m perseverating. He has insisted over and over that he didn’t cheat, loves me, misses me. In fact he’s upset because he feels wrongly accused and is mad that I’m “investigating” him. He’s given me distance and isn’t love bombing me but has asserted he did not cheat in any way. I just told him - it’s hard to catch actual cheating. But signs of cheating are more commonplace and can’t be ignored. If there isn’t a clear explanation… then I’m gone. I miss him a lot and wish it didn’t end. I believe he still loves me. But I’m telling myself that some men love their partners but either like going up to the line or cross the line. Not because they are out of love, but because they can and because the opportunity is there. Sigh. [/quote] It's over, OP. Stop ruminating on it. There's no getting back together -- while he shouldn't have done that, your impulse to constantly monitor his behavior is unsustainable and toxic. This was never going to last. You're not ready for another relationship. I hope you finding healing in therapy. Then, maybe, you might be.[/quote]
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