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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not actually clear from the draft text whether you reached out and he didn't respond, or if you just expected him to reach out first. If you want to see him, just call him and say you want to see him. If he hedges or doesn't respond, move along and do other things. It sounds like you think he is not being exclusive anymore? If that's the case, just ask him what he wants, but honestly, do you want to be exclusive? Your text does not sound like someone who is eager to see someone, more like someone who is pissed off and accusatory.[/quote] OP - This! we are all giving you advice based on what we "think" happened before now where you want to send the text. You need to tell us: have you reached out (once? twice?) about making plans before you leave for your trip and he's being evasive? Have you not reached out at all but just talked about going on your trip and expected him to make plans for the two of you? Have you hinted at getting together and he didn't pick up on that? Each of these would require a different type of text from you. 1. if you've already asked about getting together directly (Hey Ed, since I'll be gone next week, you want to try and get together sometime this week? Ed: "sure, let me get back to you with some days" (and he never does). you: Hey Ed, just following up on when you can get together - I now have plans on Monday and Wednesday, but so far the other days work for me. Ed: I'm not sure about my schedule - let me get back to you.) Then go radio silent (like the other pps said) and if he does text you, you do what the others suggested - Since I didn't hear back, I made plans. Let's try and get together when I get back from my trip. 2. If you've not said anything yet (or been evasive/subtle) - do what some of the other pps suggest and be straightforward. "Hey Ed, since I'll be gone next week, I'd really like to see you before I go. Can you get together on Thursday?"[/quote]
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