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[quote=Anonymous]"You describe your first mother as a person who wanted an abortion, speak of your adoptive parents with gratitude That is the difference between adoptees and non-adaptees. We are not made to feel we must be grateful, and love our mothers even though had a tough time years and years ago and tried to get an abortion and failed." Who says you have to feel greatful? I am an adoptive mom and many of my parent friends are also adoptive moms. Most of us have don't push this at all, but rather try to give our kids information and let them come to their own decisions about how they do and should feel about their birth parents. I ask this as a serious question because if there is some underlying message that gets sent by our actions or some pressure that we place one way or another, I'd really like to hear about it so I can understand how my actions and my messages are perceived.[/quote]
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