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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I feel your pain. My husband is doing the exact same thing to me. My guess is that it's not really an issue with the weight. They either just don't love us anymore and are using that as an excuse to be assholes, or maybe they are unhappy with themselves, so trying to make themselves feel better by insulting us. OP, how has your husband aged? Has he gained weight too? My husband has told me that I've let myself go and that my looks disgust him now and it makes having sex with me very unpleasant. He says he is very unhappy in our marriage. I am only around 8 pounds heavier than I was before we married though (I'm 5'7"), but do have stretch marks and loose skin from being pregnant. He's also unhappy with my face because, surprise, I've aged a bit since 13 years ago and have some wrinkles around my eyes. I know I don't look that bad, I still have men hitting on me, and I have not let myself go. I go to the gym and keep my appearances and dress up. It hurts so bad to hear some of the things he says about me. I've been trying to deal with it because a divorce would be extremely hard on my financially, and we also have a young child. Thankfully, he never insults me in front of our child or anyone else, he always makes sure no one else is around. The funny/ironic thing is that he has gained over 30 pounds since we got married, gone bald, and his face has aged really badly (lots of wrinkles). He is almost 10 years younger than me, but people always think he's older. I'm quite sure that in the future, if he is able to find a younger, hotter woman who wants him, he will leave me for her. I won't take it too hard though. He pretty much disgusts me now (not his change in looks, but how much of a shitty person he is inside). If he ever starts insulting me in front of our child, I know I'll have to take the initiative and leave, but for now, I'm just trying to hold our family together for our child's sake. I wish I could give you some good advice OP, but I'm pretty lost too. [/quote]
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