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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here are some examples you wrote, love bombing to get a friend, but when the chase is done, there is no need for a friend. She doesn't listen to others and loves to hear herself talk. Rejection issues are all personal; I bet you it is never her fault, right? Are you worried about setting her off? Are you feeling like walking on eggshells a lot? Is everyone stupid or mean to her? How much does she lie? Is the reality what she wants it to be? How often does she admit she is at fault or wrong? Look into NPD some more, then realize that this is the worst sentence you and your DH got for your child. I hope it is not NPD; your lives will forever be a living hell. She is your child, so you can't discard her, and she knows it. [/quote] OP here. Yes, minus the lying part, many of these apply to her. DH and I always feel like walking on eggshells around DD -- isn't that a frequent sign of either BPD or ASD? I know a lot of parents of autistic kids have to tiptoe around their kids in case they have an autistic meltdown. [/quote] DP. Yes, these are frequent with BPD and several other disorders ranging from FASD and PTSD, especially at 21. Get a 2nd opinion. You'll likely have to try several different therapies for her to find a good fit. No matter what it is, she will mellow out as she approaches 30 or in her 30s. She's got a great mom to make sure she gets the support she needs and she will be okay. You're in the thick of it right now. Hang in there. [/quote]
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