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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m around the same age as OP and his wife. I’m 5 pounds heavier than my pre pregnancy weight of 125 so I have gained 5 pounds in 15 years and having 3 children. Pretty sure Dh feels similarly to me. He is softer but he will probably feel he is not that attracted to me anymore.[/quote] Congrats? Trying being pregnant 10 times in a decade. Hint, I have far fewer than 10 children. I've been pregnant or on fertility med for the last 3 years straight.[/quote] I don’t even understand what the PP you are responding to is saying. They gained 5 pounds and are “softer” so he is not that attracted to her anymore? Uh, ok. I would have said - congratulations for marrying someone so superficial. Don’t think most guys are complaining about 5 pounds and natural aging.[/quote] We have no idea what the OP is complaining about. He just says that his wife gained weight and appears “frumpy” and that she regularly exercises. It’s probably more than 5 pounds, but it could easily be that she gained 15 pounds, doesn’t dress sexy or wear makeup, and is going grey. [/quote] Many people divorce or cheat in their forties and fifties. This is when they stop being attracted to one another. The kids are older and don’t need as much parenting so the parents who stayed together for the kids no longer feel the need to stay together as their kids leave for college.[/quote] Your 40s and 50s are also when people start really missing their youth and wishing they were young again. And if someone besides your spouse makes you feel young again, that can be extremely tempting [/quote]
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