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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men - the vast majority - are shallow ignorant sex obsessed a-holes. My theory is that many wives just do not care anymore after years of realizing what a nasty selfish jerk they’re shackled to. They don’t really want to have sex with those jerks and likely let the weight pile on to keep him at bay. A nice dish of creamy sauced pasta is 100x better than sex with a selfish jerk man child husband anyway. [/quote] A lot of men are really bad at sex. That is what is not getting discussed. [/quote] Truth.[/quote] +100000[/quote] Yes, many women stop trying. No incentive to keep trying. It’s not like society really rewards you after a certain age. You’re just old. You can be fit and old or fat and old. [/quote] I disagree with this. I notice when old people are fit. I am amazed at some of the people I see at the gym - it's inspiring. One of my mom's friends is fit and playing tennis in her 70s. Far more attractive than a woman that can't even sit on the floor and get up or whose arms flop around with fat when she moves. This is really about a person's ability to lead a healthy, active life. I assume OP's wife is in her early 40s. If it's all downhill from here, she could get a lot worse. Then, not only is he not attracted to her; she also will probably have diabetes, NASH, or some other health problem. A lot of people don't realize how bad being fat is on your liver. It's as bad as alcohol.[/quote] Being fat is not as bad on your liver as alcohol. Who told you that? And OP said that his wife has a regular exercise routine. It’s very possible to be fit, active, and healthy and be overweight. It’s also very possible to be thin and inactive. I, personally, can only lose weight if I don’t engage in strenuous exercise. [/quote] From the following website: https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/nonalcoholic-fatty-liver-disease#:~:text=If%20you%20just%20have%20fat,%25%20to%205%25%20have%20NASH. Health care providers don’t know the exact cause of fatty liver disease. But they think that obesity is the most common cause. Obesity in the U.S. has doubled in the last decade, and health care providers are seeing a steady rise in fatty liver disease. Although children and young adults can get fatty liver disease, it is most common in middle age. Risk factors include: Being overweight Having high blood fat levels, either triglycerides or LDL (“bad”) cholesterol Having diabetes or prediabetes Having high blood pressure [/quote] That doesn’t say that it’s as bad as alcohol. It actually says that it often doesn’t cause any problems. I mean, there is absolutely no way. People with alcohol use disorders are a much smaller percentage of the general population and a much larger percentage of people looking for a liver transplant. Alcoholism is a disease that reliably causes end organ damage if it remains untreated. Obesity is not. That’s why you can hardly get life insurance if you have a history of alcoholism, but obesity doesn’t even make your rates go up. [/quote]
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