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Reply to "We keep arguing about work and home responsibilities because we're both overwhelmed."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your husband is running quite the con here. He does his best and you do ALL the rest. That is madness. He can cut working out two mornings a week. He can do laundry, meal prep, etc on the weekend. You can tell him you will divorce over this.[/quote] This. I doubt he needs to be in the office that much. he can do what many of us do with kids: we get home at a reasonable time do all the kids stuff. And then we log back on and work more. But he likes the way his days are segmented. Because he gets all the time that he wants himself and can minimize the child rearing duties. Agree that he’s got a huge con going. Don’t let him get away with it any longer, OP. And do not cut your hours/effort at work. If divorce is in your future, you want to be able to support yourself. Unless he starts making crazy money and you can get good alimony.[/quote] Why do people keep mentioning divorce? [b]I read OP wants couple time with DH and willing to take on kid duty so they can have their couple time in the evenings.[/b] Op just seems more into her Dh than he is into her.[/quote] Yeah this makes me confused As to what OP is posting about. Many of us said DH should work/email or workout in the evening after kid bedtime but that wouldn't be OP preference either.[/quote]
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