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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, we've said a lot. What is your thinking? [/quote] OP here, I know PPs are right and I should put my foot down, but I dread having to tell my mother that I don't want her there (or really that DH doesn't). She will lay on the emotional guilt, and even though I know what she is doing, it still makes me feel bad. On the other hand, I also do not feel right about lying and, say, pretending that my c-section is scheduled for an earlier date and opps, I went into labor early. Lying is very tempting though.[/quote] Well, yeah. It's going to be difficult and uncomfortable. That doesn't mean it's not the right thing to do. And you know what else? This will be excellent practice for parenting. Seriously, this is not the last battle you will have to fight. It's not even the last battle you'll have to fight with your mom. The good news is, it gets easier the more you do it. And keep in mind that you're about to enter into a very, very trying time in your marriage. You guys will be stressed and exhausted. You both need to know that you have each other's backs. This is your family now. You love your mom, I know, but THIS is your family now.[/quote]
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