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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We pay for everything for our teens. It used to be allowance when they were younger but now we just give them money. They help out around the house when asked but $ isn't tied to anything in particular. We're down to only one kid at home (16) and it works for us. [/quote] How do you give money though, logistically and what limits?[/quote] They have a credit card on our account and apple pay. They ask for cash when they need it (rarely). Honestly, no limits but they don't spend a lot. I think their credit card may have a $300 limit but they never even come close unless they're buying something big which we know about-these are more the ones in college. HS kid has very few charges. [/quote] $300 per month is a LOT for most families. However, you say they don't come close. My teens spend practically nothing because they hardly ever go out with their friends. We look jointly at what new clothes or gear they might need or want, then I pay, because it's all online. My son pays for a few video games with my credit card. Ditto when my daughter buys a few trinkets. OP, I don't quite understand why you're making such a fuss. Yes, teens pay for themselves when they go out, but "pay for themselves" often means with parental money. Your kid has a job. Yes, teens like to talk back. Sometimes it's in the tone, not the words. You have to pick your battles and make the rules that work for you. Your kid really isn't that bratty or out of line. if you want to shut him up, tell him that your household budget doesn't allow for too many frivolous expenses, and his friends probably have richer parents. Also be upfront with him about your ability to pay for college. Start a conversation now about costs. Teens need to understand how exorbitant they are these days! [/quote]
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