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Reply to "We keep arguing about work and home responsibilities because we're both overwhelmed."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I suggest he leans into his job, makes (a lot) more money, and you hire a lot more help to do all the household management stuff or allow you to go to part-time. [/quote] This. You are in a tough spot where while you both make good money, it is not amazing money for DC with kids, so you can't outsource enough to make life better. This was us a year ago. My DH leaned in and I leaned out (in the same job, just have been doing the bare minimum which is not really in my nature), he is making more money, and we are happier. I am looking for new jobs to take a step back. [/quote]
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