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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] OP here. DH wants sex. I am the one who doesn't want it. When I was pregnant, I didn't want it either. I was too busy puking. I had terrible morning sickness all day and night. I'm 33 and fairly attractive. I am back down to 120 pounds and a size 4. I can't help but think DH is not my soul mate and someone out there can make me happier. If it weren't for the kids, I would have left long ago. I don't doubt we can make it work in the short term but I am certain we won't last forever. If I know we will most likely separate, I would prefer to do it when I am still relatively young. My unhappiness has little to do with sex. I am emotionally unhappy. Secondly, I feel like my sex drive is nonexistent. I am assuming my lack of physical attraction has to do with my mental dislike for my husband.[/quote] Do you even know what you want? Seriously do you? Do you think if you find this "soulmate" it's all roses and butterflies? What if you fall in love with this "soul mate" and he wants nothing to do with your kids? You also want to do it while you're young aka still attractive, what type are you going to attract? You WILL get old and then what? Think long and hard about these things and don't be reactionary, marriage is about adjustment. While you may be all about you right now, which is all you've written about, are you the same woman he married? Talk to your husband, you should be able to say anything to your spouse and there a reason you married him and had children with him. I'm not a huge proponent of therapy, shouldn't need an audience to communicate with your spouse. [/quote]
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