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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, it’s fine. Don’t listen to the people on DCUM that always want to make out the mom to be the bad person. Talk to your lawyer, sure, but just send him something in writing stating your intentions and that this is not a new summer arrangement.[/quote]

No, Dad is always made out to the bad one.  OP wants a divorce.  She needs to move out and file and do a 50-50 custody.  And, coordinate with him.  If he's working, not sure what is expected.  7 weeks is a long time and she can easily move away taking the kids and he will lose the kids.  Feeding the kids too many sweets is not an excuse to take their dad away.[/quote]

Where did she say that she wanted a divorce?  
She said that she plans to come back. Even if she didn’t, the dad can move there too if he actually wants to be with the kids and not just control his wife.  It’s not like it’s a secret.

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Dad has a job and life here.  He cannot just pick up and move.  That is not reasonable.[/quote]

OP also has a job and a life here, and someone is arguing that it’s not only reasonable, but highly probable, that she will pick up and move.

What’s it like to be a man and have it be against the law for someone to ask you to do something disruptive to your job or your life for the sake of your kids?  [/quote]

A job doesn’t stop someone from moving.

I know what it’s like.  My husbands ex did it to him. [/quote]

Your husband’s ex moved with the kids before they divorced?  
Did he file for emergency custody of the kids?  Or did he move to wherever she was to be near the kids?  [/quote]

Yes she just moved, he asked for custody many times and the courts would not enforce anything not hold her in contempt.  No, he could not follow cross country as he’d be court marshaled and thrown in jail. Why should he follow her to be with her affair partner?  It’s truly sad how she messed up two sets of kids.  Most courts do nothing.  When she abused his kids, his were removed but not theirs. [/quote]

I guess that he would move to be near his children, not to be near his wife’s affair partner.  Or, in OP’s case, her elderly parents.  [/quote]

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