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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do his kids like you? Not just as dad's casual girlfriend, but will they welcome you as a grandparent? Will they accommodate you in their family and consider your preferences like a real family member? I ask because "almost grown" children can seem very disengaged, but when marriage is on the table, things get real. How will you feel if when grandparenting starts to take up his time or interferes with things you want to do? Also consider finances. My dad has basically disowned me in favor of making sure his younger wife has enough to live on after he's gone. I make good money myself, so I don't mind, but you must think about how things would play out in your situation. Also, who will be your family after he is gone? Who will make decisions when you are unable, visit you, and guard your well-being? Don't count on your stepchildren here-- you didn't raise them, and they will be busy with their own families and their mother if she is alive. [b]You saying maturity aligns is a red flag.[/b] You probably think you are extra-mature, but I usually observe that in these situations, the man is immature, and the woman is immature or gullible enough to believe that she's extra-mature.[/quote] +1000 I caught that too. Think about this OP. What is attractive about a 50 year old man with the maturity of a 30 year old? That is what you said, you know.[/quote]
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