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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] This is solid advice. And THANK GOD we are married to men and not women. Men can take the brutal truth without going crazy and freaking out. My DH got exactly like yours, except I could not have pity sex with him. It was gross. I told him it was gross. I told him that unless he started taking care of himself then I was not going to have sex with him and would be miserably sexually frustrated. My DH went from 285lbs and is now at 220 lbs. He is not only thin, but he is FIT. His arms are now jacked and he is at the gym 4 days a week, plus runs. He eats strictly Paleo that I fully support by laboring in the kitchen and over meal plans. We are going away this weekend to another family's beach home. I asked for the meal plan in advance. Tonight is spaghetti, I have packed him "zucchini noodles" so he does not have to eat pasta. So, yes, I was harsh, but I back his changes up by being supportive. We both work full time and it takes A TON of support when two people are exercising 5 days a week. I support all of his athletic endeavors. I tell him ALL the time how hot and sexy he is and our sex life is at about 3 times a week (vs a horrible 3xs a month). Unlike your DH, mine still had a sex drive, so he was very motivated to make me want to have sex with him. His confidence now is through the roof, there were so many other benefits other than the obvious, he's just happier. He loves the changes and he loves the attention he gets (not just from me) women have noticed. Everyone gets a nice boost when people other than their spouse think they are hot. Good luck, my DH turned his heath and appearance around, yours can too, but you need to give it to him straight and brutal, men don't "do" smoke signals.[/quote] You sound like someone who has her priorities just right. I wish I knew you in real life!![/quote]
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