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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH here: this calls for brutal honesty. You do him no favors by sugar-coating this. Don't feel bad about these feelings, you are only human and it is natural. Be loving, as you seem to be, but direct and precise. [b]He may well not understand how far things have gone.[/b][/quote] This is a huge factor. Most people (myself included) truly have no idea how out of shape they are until they start to get back into shape. Pray for a health scare that doesn't kill him. That's often what gets middle aged guys to change, since their libido is no longer enough to motivate them.[/quote] And it is not that hard to start turning the ship around. 30 minute walks in the evenings most nights; 1 session of weightlifting per week. The weights are the most important part, even a little time in the weight room can pay big dividends in how you feel and keeping your motivation up. [/quote]
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