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[quote=Anonymous]I love my DH immensely. We've been through a lot together, have children, and i would never leave him. He has become obese, though, and I have absolutely NO physical attraction to him anymore. Even without the attraction, I would still have sex regularly, but he isn't into it. He won't see a doctor, he hoards junk food when I'm not around, and he denies any depression. He brushes off my concerns about his physical well being, as I genuinely worry he will keel over in this 40s from a heart attack. I try to do family activities that involve exercise and he won't go. He does most of the cooking. It isn't unhealthy, but he eats four or five servings worth. It has been at least three years since he even made a good effort at losing the weight. At some point, do I need to point blank say that I'm not attracted to him or would that just make a bad situation worse? The thought of his stomach hanging out from under his shirts because they are too short REALLY turns me off, the skin creases gross me out, and I feel guilty for feeling that way on top of everything else, like I'm way too superficial.[/quote]
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