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[quote=Anonymous]I am a Female and I live alone in an apt. complex. My youngest son just recently left for college so I now have an empty nest which I have been looking forward to, however with it comes new challenges, I suppose. I am single and I live alone by the way. There is this neighbor guy who lives three doors down and has been flirty with me for the past year & a half since I moved in. I have always been friendly with him in a neighborly way and have never led him on in any way, shape or form. I could tell he liked me, but I always kept things in the friend...or rather I should say....the "neighbor" zone. Well he found out my son moved out through another neighbor (I wasn't going to tell him!), and now his flirting has gotten heavier. I am definitely not attracted to him for many many reasons and I am 100% positive he will not grow on me. I am in my mid-40's and he is 32 or 33. I work and have my own apartment home, my own car and I also go to school and volunteer. I like to keep busy and I like to better my life as much as possible. He still lives with his mother and family, has no car and only works part-time in a fast-food joint. He also was a past drug user and just physically is not my type nor does he seem to have any ambition, sense of humor or charm about him. He has gotten kinda aggressive in his flirting with me. For example, when I am outside, 80% of the time, he just "shows up." It could be random coincidence, but I sometimes wonder how exactly he knows when I am checking my mail, taking out my garbage, etc. since his windows do not face the exterior areas, etc. However, he seems to just show up at times. He also walks by my apartment any reason he can, however he doesn't actually knock on my door. When he talks to me, he asks if we can "hang out + snuggle and watch some T.V." I obviously tell him No. And this is the same thing over and over. He asks me the same question, I answer the same answer. I would think he would get the hint. In any other situation, I would tell this loser to stay the fu%* away from me, but since this guy is my neighbor and lives so close to me, it would make for a lot of awkwardness in my living situation and I really cannot afford to move out anytime soon for financial and personal reasons so that is not even an option here. Does anyone have [i]any[/i] ideas on what I can say to this guy so he can get the hint/message and leave me alone, yet things won't get so weird since we have to co-exist as neighbors?? Thank you in advance for your awesome advice DCmers!! :D [/quote]
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