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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am somewhat shy and terrible at self-promotion and office politics. I think before speaking, and am slow to process information. For example, when presented with a decision, I need time and mental space to think through all the possibilities before coming up with a response. I am not at all competitive, and much prefer a collegial, collaborative environment. I am good at recognizing issues/problems, but not so good at coming up with solutions (not seen as proactive or solutions-oriented). Unfortunately, these things have hindered my career. I've missed out on opportunities because someone else is quicker on their feet to seize them, or I fly under the radar because of my quiet and reserved nature, or I just can't muster up the courage to take risks and put myself out there. I have never held jobs for longer than 3-5 years because I grow bored and unmotivated/dissatisfied with the people, the work, and the lack of opportunity (which I'm aware is partially my fault). Frankly, I am tired of job-hopping and just want to find a place where I can realize my potential. Any ideas? Thanks DCUM. [/quote] You sound like me, OP. I am an introvert, I like to think things very much through before making a decision. I also am very quick to detect issues/problems and am a great sounding board. It has all in all resulted in a good career, but not a spectacular one. I have come to terms with that realization. I am the right hand person to a charismatic executive who has the people skills, while I handle all the technical stuff. He shines in the spotlight, but could not be there without my support. It works out great for both of us. I also take my time to speak in meetings, but even though I rarely speak up, when I do, people tend to remember what I say and value my insights, perhaps because I have taken the time to actually think before speaking? I would suggest finding a specialized niche where technical skills are valued and becoming very knowledgeable in that niche. I would also second finding a mentor who knows how to work with introverts.[/quote]
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