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[quote=Anonymous]I came from a very dysfunctional, abusive family and so I'm one of those who say you get to choose who your family is when you're an adult. You may be conditioned to love someone because you're born into the same family but that was only because you were too young to have a choice. When you're an adult, you get to choose who you are and who you want in your family. If your sister is abusive to you in any way, call her out on it. Give her a chance to change her behavior. If she chooses to continue to 'shoot missiles' at you, you can choose not to subject yourself to them. I think having a single child is absolutely fine. I have three but could have been just as happy with one. In fact, sometimes I envy people who have just one child. You can do so much more. Allow yourself to grieve the loss of what your idea of a sister was. It's not what you have and it's very disappointing when what you want isn't your reality. Hugs.[/quote]
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