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[quote=Anonymous]My spouse and I have an agreement. We will buy each other something on birthdays and holidays but it will be minor. We each plan what we would like to do for our own birthdays and tell the other. We then handle paying for it. If we want a particular big ticket item as a gift we buy it for ourselves. Then we each buy some "token" type gift with a hard spending limit for the other or send flowers as a "I didn't forget and I care" type thing. It sucks spending money and not getting exactly what the other person wanted. This dynamic, while a bit odd, works very well for us because we get to spoil ourselves and remind each other we care. [/quote]
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