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[quote=Anonymous] My moms boyfriend of 5 years makes racist/discriminatory jokes and remarks which I find incredibly offensive. just for an example; last night -made some joke about aboriginals and alcohol -my DD (20 mts) put a throw over her head and was walking around being silly, he goes "oh my she looks like a Muslim" "watch out for bombs" WTF?????????? Firstly that is messed up, secondly you are saying these disgusting racist remarks in front of A CHILD? Not that it makes it any better who you say it in front of, but now you are making that association in her head, and teaching her racist filth. He is also just an insensitive jerk all around, some other examples: - I had an ectopic pregnancy after months of infertility treatment and had ER surgery - afterwards he said to me "oh these things happen, most people have a starter pregnancy, I know my wife did (not my mom his ex)" - yesterday we were over at my mom's for dinner, DD usually eats at 6 pm it was 7:15 and she was getting crabby and hungry, so I said "oh mom I'm just gunna give her some crackers from my bag cause she's getting hungry". Her BF says "she's not going to starve, its not like she's petite" under his breath. .....ummm how is this your business? She is a sweet chubby little toddler, but nothing extreme (20 months and 27 lbs) I want to say something to him or my mom but not sure how to approach this, WWYD? I have suggested to my mom before "oh can we just have a girls dinner" without my DH and her BF so we can avoid seeing him, but she seems all offended. [/quote]
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