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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]he doesn't mind rotating, except now it seems like he's permanently on the weaker team in defense. it's almost been five months, and to a 9-year-old it is like eternity. he has become better and better during these 5 months because he wanted to get out of the weaker team and his position, but it doesn't seem to lead to any changes. while in the past, he was quite sensitive to my son's progress. i just don't know if this is because he is on scholarship. wouldn't the club want the player they pay for to play at the stronger team and in the most effective position? it just doesn't make sense to me. the real problem is that he doesn't see a way out. if he makes efforts, his teammates cannot possess the ball and they loses. if he is discouraged and doesn't work extra hard, they loses. after working so hard for almost five months, this past week he finally became unmotivated, and it is just hard to see. and this weak team is likely to stay weak for a long time, so he will always have to stay on this team? we seriously ask ourselves, should we stay or should we leave. but is this the same with other clubs for the scholarship players? [/quote] You seem like a terrible helicopter parent. Maybe try tennis?[/quote]
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