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[quote=Anonymous]This is so tough. There is no right decision. You have to do what is best for everyone, including you. My dad did not have Parkinson's, but ended up in needing full time care. His wishes were to receive care at his home. However, he was in VA and I was in MD. I made the decision to move him into assisted living closer to me. I had to make the hard decision to go against his wishes, but I could not manage round the clock care for him, without completely disrupting my life, work and family. Even with 24 hour care, I would have been the one who would need to take him to doctors, which seemed endless. And what would happen if the care providers didn't show up. I would be the one needing to take off. He did end up receiving hospice care, but that was not round the clock care, it was an hour here and there for specific things. You can only do what is best at the time for everyone. It may not be what they want or what you want, but it is what is best. There is no right way to do this. [/quote]
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