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[quote=Anonymous]I think you did the right thing in going. Not for MIL’s sake, but for your wife. But now, you’re making everything about you, when it’s not about you & your relationship with MIL - it’s about your wife & her complicated feelings around her dying mother. Doing something loving for your wife & then telling her how everyone thinks you did such a good deed by being a loving partner does not feel genuine or loving. She’s struggling. I would let it go, stop talking about how commendable it was, stop talking about how MIL was wrong. Don’t make it about you & your feelings towards MIL - your spouse’s feelings are much more complicated & more important right now. Just listen & be a shoulder for her to lean on right now. No praise or reward needed- she will return the favor of being a supportive spouse when you are in need. [/quote]
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