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[quote=Anonymous]These are the meanest and least helpful responses I’ve ever seen. OP, I would feel exactly the same as you. I did not drink at all during pregnancy for this reason. That said, once baby was here, I found many, MANY ways to screw up and be a suboptimal parent. Yes, you consumed a tiny bit of alcohol. No one can say it’s definitely fine but it’s very very likely to be fine. It’s time to start working on channeling this anxiety into how you can do better next time and then mentally totally moving on. Dwelling on guilt of mistakes is toxic to parenting. I know this from experience. You cannot do anything about this now, so you MUST forget about it and move on. You’ll need this skill once baby is born and you make terrible mistakes much more regularly.[/quote]
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