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Reply to ""No Birthday Gifts, Please": What Un-American BS."
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[quote=Anonymous]The problem is that these families are lavishing their own children with everything the child wants, then when the party comes, get all control-freak on everyone and say that they don't want any gifts. I too used to be of this mindset and even had a no-gift party for my kid once. Then I realized that I was the bigger problem of accumulating too much stuff in our lives, not the yearly birthday party. Not at all, or at least not totally. My daughter goes to a school where kids come from a wide range of economic backgrounds. When she has a party and invites kids from her class, buying a gift would be an imposition on the parents, and some might not even come if they didn't feel like they could bring a gift. No one wants that. (Plus, your advice is "don't buy your kids stuff so you can have a gift party?" Seriously? That's - effed up.) And, OP - no-gift parties are crippling our kids' moral development? Are you high? How about teaching your kids not to be greedy little shits? [/quote]
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