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[quote=Anonymous]Hey OP - I've felt similar to you (and sometimes still do), especially when my kids were babies. My DH just wasn't a great husband/father when the kids were young. Unfortunately, after you have kids in the picture, it's not just a "DH isn't perfect, I need to go find my soulmate" type proposition. Your choices are: 1. bail on your husband and try to find that perfect guy to marry you and be the guy of your dreams while dealing with single mom-ing it with an ex-husband. or 2. work on the relationship you have and get the best out of it. I've chosen 2, mostly because I've talked to enough of my friends to know that they ALL have some level of issue with their spouses and although I don't have the best situation, it's not anything out-of-the-ordinary. It sounds like you might be depressed or at least at a crossroads in your life. Not the best time to be making a major life decision. Try spending a year of truly truly working on yourself and your marriage and then re-assess. I think my absolute low-point in our marriage was when we had a 3yo and a 1yo. It was truly truly awful and I hear that again and again. That first year, particularly with the second child, can be just excruciatingly difficult. Wait it out, put in some serious effort, and make a better decision when the youngest is at least 2.5-3. Best of luck.[/quote]
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