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[quote=Anonymous]I mean this really nicely and with a lot of empathy: grow up. seriously. You get to be mad, you get to feel disconnected and angry. But as an adult, with 2 kids who depend on you to Do The Right Thing By Them, who depend on you to work hard to make their lives stable, you have no right to wallow in anger, poisoning your marriage while completely blaming your husband for its demise. You need to either (1) get to counseling/therapy with or without DH or (2) get over it. Those are your only responsible choices. The only grievance you have detailed is him not wanting to have sex with you. I've seen the sexless marriage threads here and I understand it can be hard but... are you freaking kidding me? The sex declined temporarily while you were pregnant and had two small kids? You keep saying it "seemed" and "supposed" so you never even talked about it to him and got his opinion? That's enough for you to check out of the marriage? Engage in tit for tat? Destroy your family home? Are you 12? I know you will get a lot of sympathetic posts so consider this an alternative strategy" a wake up call. You are heading towards a long painful and miserable breakdown of your marriage. You can either be part of the problem or the solution. Let me guess, you didn't really pay attention to your wedding vows because you were too busy planning what was important to you - The Big Day. [/quote]
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