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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's very common with young kids and stress and hormones and expectations, to not like each other. This is hard! Lots and lots of couples I know have gone through this and after their youngest is 2 I feel like you end up liking your DH a little better You need to be totally honest about what help you need from him, don't just simmer with resentment while you bathe the kids and do bedtime, etc. if you feel like he isn't doing his share you need to ask for help or you will never get over the anger You need date nights, every single week. You married each other for a reason, figure out what that was. Make a night for sex, seriously, this has helped us immensely. Unless you like the idea of being a single mother with 2 young kids and splitting up your family then you need to work on this. I have friends who didn't make it through this tough time, the wife (my friend) didn't want to hear it-she swore she just wasn't in love and she is more miserable now! 3 kids under 6 and it's so hard, and her kids are miserable. You say he is a great dad so I think there is hope. And as for him not being attracted to yu while pregnant, did he tell you that? Some men have no idea what to do with a pregnant woman, especially one that has been throwing up for weeks,meh was probably just afraid to make anything worse Good luck! [/quote]
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