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[quote=Anonymous]OP, my BIL was murdered, so I speak from unfortunate experience. Anything you do will be appreciated but the best thing you can do is to stay in touch with her after the funeral. She is in shock now and will be for some time to come. She will be able to function and people will think she is fine, believe me, she isn't. She needs someone to listen to her because, just like cancer, there are five stages. It was almost a year before the police found who murdered my BIL and why. Please do not say to her that this is God's will and she will find out all she needs to know. Someone said this to me and I wanted to strangle her, instead I just screamed and screamed. Send her a card or whatever now and then call every week for awhile and just let her talk. It was so important that I did have a couple of friends who did just let me talk, sob, and every week one of them would call or visit.[/quote]
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