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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks for the advice. I know I need to get this stuff settled but I'm so scared to make our break up official. -op[/quote] My observation is that you don't have to worry about making it "official." When someone says they don't want to be together anymore, THEY have made it official. The rest is just a matter of dividing up the CDs. At the risk of sounding a bit harsh in this format, it sounds to me like you are in denial. By saying that you think if you don't try to show him how much you love him, you will regret it - well, I would say he knows this already. He did not break up with you because he felt you were cold or not into him anymore, right? This is about HIM. There is really nothing left for you to say. Try to keep your dignity here. You have 1 job right now: protect yourself, and your financial interests. Separately you can look or listen for openings to make your case, but all you really need to say if you haven't already is that this is not the outcome you want. If he is so turned off by the idea that you have no life outside of him, don't play into that by groveling for his return! Stay out late this week even if you have to sit in a movie theater every night or book dinner dates. Get the finances sorted out, cancel credit cards, figure out who owes what and start formulating a finance plan. THAT is what you will regret if it comes back to bite you. [/quote]
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