pbraverman wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have heard GDS and Sidwell only. Anyone know otherwise?
I'm not sure whether this question is serious. If it is...
The idea that a school's placement history at "name schools" (or SAT scores) will necessarily rub off on any specific student is folly. There is a case to be made in the opposite direction, in fact — namely, that if your child is one of three applying to Penn, and she's worked her way through a gritty high school, she'll have a better shot getting in than if she's one of 30 at a posh independent school.
My wife has an undergraduate Ivy degree, and I have one from graduate school. We both believe that our non-Ivy experiences were far superior on almost measure one would apply.
I'd suggest considering a college that fits your child when that time arrives, rather than the other way around. The odds of getting into one of those colleges, cumulatively, is less than one in 10. Why set a child up for failure based on parent dreams?
COLLEGE IS NOT THE END GAME.
Thanks Peter. I do have my youngest at an independent school but not for the reason of getting into an Ivy. I hope this doesn't hurt her chances of getting in a school fit for her. Our intentions on sending her to private was not for the end game of top colleges but to insure that she was well prepared for the rigor of college. Our oldest, public school education successful completed bachelors at a big 10 and is now graduating with masters from an Ivy. While she did have a good education in public isn't without having the luck of draw of few great teachers. Even then she felt others were well prepared to succeed than her and they had more opportunities from both a mix of private or public schools.
Peter
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