What to wear over a fancy dress that isn't unfashionable?

[Anonymous]

I am wearing a sleeveless, just above knee length dress to an event and need something to wear over my shoulders. It has a square neckline and 1/2 inch straps.

Everything seems off.

Too casual: http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/176-7136484-6167021?ASIN=B000GEX03Y&AFID=Froogle&LNM=B000GEX03Y|Mossimo_Black_Shrug_Ebony&ci_src=14110944&ci_sku=B000GEX03Y&ref=tgt_adv_XSG10001

Too prom: http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/176-7136484-6167021?ASIN=B001V8BONC&AFID=Froogle&LNM=B001V8BONC|Adi_Designs_Pashmina_Luxury_Shawl_-_Navy&ci_src=14110944&ci_sku=B001V8BONC&ref=tgt_adv_XSG10001

Too much like I'm wearing a "shirt over my dress" according to my sister): http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?itemdescription=true&itemCount=60&startValue=1&selectedProductColor=&sortby=&id=16924730&parentid=W_APP_CARDIGANS&sortProperties=+subCategoryPosition,price&navCount=414&navAction=poppushpush&color=&pushId=W_APP_CARDIGANS&popId=WOMENS_APPAREL&prepushId=

Well, what the heck do I wear?

[Anonymous]

I would go with the pashmina.

[Anonymous]

I would skip the shawl and go with something more current, like a shrug or cozy.

[Anonymous]

love the blazer!

[Anonymous]

Great! I am currently working on putting together a dress/blazer look for myself!!