New husband was a douche on wedding night

[Anonymous]

On our wedding night a few months ago, my Newly minted husband got super drunk and could hardly walk. I had to drag him back to our suite. As we were walking back I told him I was so embarrassed and disappointed that he got so drunk on our wedding night. He got angry and yelled at me on the street and goes and tells our friends that I am "picking" a fight. I finally manage to bring him to our suite where he is too drunk to unbutton my dress. When I say anything about anything about being disappointed, he says shortly that our marriage won't work if I keep picking on him.

I cried asleep on my wedding night.

The next morning when I told him I was hurt and disappointed, he loses his temper again and says I am picking on him for having a good time. We weee fighting all through breakfast.

I am so angry and hurt over all that he did to ruin our wedding night and day after. I don't know how I can forgive him. I feel humiliated, disrespected and unloved. The worst part is he didn't even apologize the next morning or for a few days after I repeatedly sat down and reminded him that this was unacceptable.

I want to leave him.

[Anonymous]

No kids yet?

Just leave. You could try therapy but will it help? He sounds like a baby.

[Anonymous]

You are crazy. He got drunk on your wedding night (which hundreds of thousands of people do) and you feel disrespected and cried yourself to sleep? You sound like a drama queen.

[Anonymous]

Wow! You sound like this mother.

[Anonymous]

do it. leave. better to get it over with sooner rather than later.

[Anonymous]

Good luck for the next 50 years!

[Anonymous]

Well, it’ll be a long road for both of you at this rate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are crazy. He got drunk on your wedding night (which hundreds of thousands of people do) and you feel disrespected and cried yourself to sleep? You sound like a drama queen.

He picked a fight with her in front of their friends. Does your SO treat you like this?

[Anonymous]

You both sound way too immature to be married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:On our wedding night a few months ago, my Newly minted husband got super drunk and could hardly walk. I had to drag him back to our suite. As we were walking back I told him I was so embarrassed and disappointed that he got so drunk on our wedding night. He got angry and yelled at me on the street and goes and tells our friends that I am "picking" a fight. I finally manage to bring him to our suite where he is too drunk to unbutton my dress. When I say anything about anything about being disappointed, he says shortly that our marriage won't work if I keep picking on him.

I cried asleep on my wedding night.

The next morning when I told him I was hurt and disappointed, he loses his temper again and says I am picking on him for having a good time. We weee fighting all through breakfast.

I am so angry and hurt over all that he did to ruin our wedding night and day after. I don't know how I can forgive him. I feel humiliated, disrespected and unloved. The worst part is he didn't even apologize the next morning or for a few days after I repeatedly sat down and reminded him that this was unacceptable.

I want to leave him.

This part made ma laugh. I wouldn't apologize either if you were treating me like that. He isn't your child. This is not how you properly interact for a successful marriage.

[Anonymous]

I am willing to bet this isn't the first time you had to do that with him.

So many people marry the fun frat boy or a guys guy and think they will change them and their drinking and all that. it never happens.

So glad my dad told me about the type of men that are in the world.

Never date a guy who wears his hat backwards
Never date a guy who wears a tie with shorts
Never date a guy who talks badly of his mother
Never date a guy who doesn't open the car door for you
Never date a guy who doesn't come to the door to pick you up
Never date a guy who spends too much time washing his car
Never date someone and try to change them

[Anonymous]

What frat was he in?

[Anonymous]

Is this the first time you’ve been around him while he is drunk? If not, was this typical behavior and it just didn’t fly on your wedding night? If you’ve never seen him drunk, he must have just not been able to handle it, by doesn’t sound like a regular thing so let it go.

You sound immature though, to say you want to leave so quickly.

[Anonymous]

Get it annulled. This is your major red flag. Ignore at your own peril.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am willing to bet this isn't the first time you had to do that with him.

So many people marry the fun frat boy or a guys guy and think they will change them and their drinking and all that. it never happens.

So glad my dad told me about the type of men that are in the world.

Never date a guy who wears his hat backwards
Never date a guy who wears a tie with shorts
Never date a guy who talks badly of his mother
Never date a guy who doesn't open the car door for you
Never date a guy who doesn't come to the door to pick you up
Never date a guy who spends too much time washing his car
Never date someone and try to change them