What is the legal age of consent in DC?

[Anonymous]

DD is 19 and having sex with someone who is 36. I confronted him and told him she is not legal, she is not 21 yet. He insisted 18 is the age to have sex with anyone.

DD decided at 18 she can do whatever she wants. Ex DH left us and left us a 2 family house and his mother lives upstairs. That's another story but when DD turned 18 she immediately moved upstairs with her and decided she can do whatever she wants since she was 18 and not living with me. She won't take steps to protect her safety. She walks all hours of the night alone because "I'm an adult". I told her adults don't walk around all hours of the night because they care about their safety. I am an adult and I am never out past dark unless I need to go home somewhere.

[Anonymous]

18 is legal for everything but drinking. I think the actual age of consent for these purposes is younger, but if she's 19 there is no way the 36-year-old is breaking any laws. But, ick.

[Anonymous]

It's legal. May or may not be smart, healthy, or a good relationship, but it's legal. Age 21 is only relevant for drinking alcohol, otherwise age 18 is the legal age of majority for anything I can think of (and definitely for decisions about intimate relationships).

[Anonymous]

It's legal.

[Anonymous]

How could you possibly not know 18 is a legal adult? This already says a lot about your situation.

[Anonymous]

Age of consent is 16 in DC.

You've given the 36-year old the power, OP, because now he knows he's dealing with a dumbass.

[Anonymous]

Op I'm really surprised you didn't know the age of consent is 18 across the U.S. I think some states are lower. This speaks volumes about your parenting style and might be partially the reason for the strained relationship with your daughter. By the way what was the reason your husband left? Either way you should really work on improving your relationship with your daughter. it's concerning she is dating someone that old even if it's legal. There is a reason and you should be having an honest respectful conversation with her.

[Anonymous]

OP I'm sorry you are facing this situation and I'm sorry you are also facing the empathy lacking assholiness of the harpies on this tailboard.

I hope you can speak to someone in real life who can support you and your situation.

[Anonymous]

talk board, not tailboard (above).

[Anonymous]

It varies from 16-18 in the US. Nowhere is it 21. I can't believe you would make an argument without really knowing what you're talking about--you really do look silly to them now.

#themoreyouknow

[Anonymous]

Well, maybe she'll outgrow him.

[Anonymous]

This can't be real, right?

[Anonymous]

Can the MIL talk to her about safety? OP keep letting your DD know you love her and care about her.

[Anonymous]

Why wouldn't you google this?

Seriously. There's nowhere in the United States where the age of consent is over 18.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DD is 19 and having sex with someone who is 36. I confronted him and told him she is not legal, she is not 21 yet. He insisted 18 is the age to have sex with anyone.

DD decided at 18 she can do whatever she wants.

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She is not far from being correct. At 18 she became an adult and at that time gained the right to anything that is legal. That includes voting, joining the military, being able to serve on a jury, having sex with any adult no matter if he is 19 or 69.