What is going on at Sidwell is NOT just a “sex scandal”

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:There is a new lawsuit filed April 25 by the Sidwell mom against the Sidwell dad and others

https://www.rfcexpress.com/lawsuits/other-personal-injury/florida-southern-district-court/487378/tara-mehrbach-v-a-j-newmyer-iii-jeffrey-fisher-odette-marie-bendeck-fisher-bendeck-pl-and-christopher-barden/summary/

COMPLAINT for Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress, Civil Conspiracy to Intentionally Inflict Emotional Distress, Flase Light Invasion of Privacy, Invasion of Privacy, Defamation, Abuse of Process Malicious Prosecution, Perjury, and Other Relief against All Defendants


To clarify, as multiple people are "Sidwell mom" or "Sidwell dad", Terry Newmyer's ex-wife is suing him and, apparently, his lawyers.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is a new lawsuit filed April 25 by the Sidwell mom against the Sidwell dad and others

https://www.rfcexpress.com/lawsuits/other-personal-injury/florida-southern-district-court/487378/tara-mehrbach-v-a-j-newmyer-iii-jeffrey-fisher-odette-marie-bendeck-fisher-bendeck-pl-and-christopher-barden/summary/

COMPLAINT for Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress, Civil Conspiracy to Intentionally Inflict Emotional Distress, Flase Light Invasion of Privacy, Invasion of Privacy, Defamation, Abuse of Process Malicious Prosecution, Perjury, and Other Relief against All Defendants


To clarify, as multiple people are "Sidwell mom" or "Sidwell dad", Terry Newmyer's ex-wife is suing him and, apparently, his lawyers.


She's sued him many times. Always loses.
Anonymous
Thanks Terry, for the clarification.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Thanks Terry, for the clarification.



Not Terry, Tara.
Anonymous
Link to complaint - https://anonfiles.com/file/f0761844e58bfa421ab78bf7074d1220

Reading this makes me very sad for her. Husband has basically ruined her life. His combination of wealth and spite makes him very dangerous.

I was especially struck by the husband's swiping his ex-wife's cell phone while she was in the hospital (paragraph 119), letting his lawyer wear the ex-wife's wedding ring at her deposition (paragraph 129), creating "NCD" shirts (paragraph 136), and having some bizarre fetish with sunglasses (paragraphs 137-139).

DCUM gets a shout-out at paragraphs 51-52.
Anonymous
NP. Wow, these folks sound like real winners. And Sidwell really screwed up by not getting out ahead of the problem and resolving it quietly before this blew up so publicly. Although since it won't cost them prestige or $, long-term maybe they did the right thing.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Link to complaint - https://anonfiles.com/file/f0761844e58bfa421ab78bf7074d1220

Reading this makes me very sad for her. Husband has basically ruined her life. His combination of wealth and spite makes him very dangerous.

I was especially struck by the husband's swiping his ex-wife's cell phone while she was in the hospital (paragraph 119), letting his lawyer wear the ex-wife's wedding ring at her deposition (paragraph 129), creating "NCD" shirts (paragraph 136), and having some bizarre fetish with sunglasses (paragraphs 137-139).

DCUM gets a shout-out at paragraphs 51-52.


Are we supposed to believe you're just a random person who has time to read hundreds of pages of a complaint between strangers?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Link to complaint - https://anonfiles.com/file/f0761844e58bfa421ab78bf7074d1220

Reading this makes me very sad for her. Husband has basically ruined her life. His combination of wealth and spite makes him very dangerous.

I was especially struck by the husband's swiping his ex-wife's cell phone while she was in the hospital (paragraph 119), letting his lawyer wear the ex-wife's wedding ring at her deposition (paragraph 129), creating "NCD" shirts (paragraph 136), and having some bizarre fetish with sunglasses (paragraphs 137-139).

DCUM gets a shout-out at paragraphs 51-52.


Are we supposed to believe you're just a random person who has time to read hundreds of pages of a complaint between strangers?


Yes, I'm just a "random person" without connection to either side. The complaint is only about 40 pages, and I'm a litigator so I'm pretty adept at skimming through the crap and summarizing it for clients. It took me about 5 minutes to download the complaint from PACER, and 10 more to read and summarize it, plus another 5 minutes to figure out how to upload it anonymously for you to read.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Link to complaint - https://anonfiles.com/file/f0761844e58bfa421ab78bf7074d1220

Reading this makes me very sad for her. Husband has basically ruined her life. His combination of wealth and spite makes him very dangerous.

I was especially struck by the husband's swiping his ex-wife's cell phone while she was in the hospital (paragraph 119), letting his lawyer wear the ex-wife's wedding ring at her deposition (paragraph 129), creating "NCD" shirts (paragraph 136), and having some bizarre fetish with sunglasses (paragraphs 137-139).

DCUM gets a shout-out at paragraphs 51-52.


Are we supposed to believe you're just a random person who has time to read hundreds of pages of a complaint between strangers?


Yes, I'm just a "random person" without connection to either side. The complaint is only about 40 pages, and I'm a litigator so I'm pretty adept at skimming through the crap and summarizing it for clients. It took me about 5 minutes to download the complaint from PACER, and 10 more to read and summarize it, plus another 5 minutes to figure out how to upload it anonymously for you to read.


Count me as a second random person who found the complaint ( filed pro se by TM) to be fascinating. The reference to DCUM was weird until I realized this was a complaint intended to get her story out. At least one of these two Sidwell parents is very sick.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Link to complaint - https://anonfiles.com/file/f0761844e58bfa421ab78bf7074d1220

Reading this makes me very sad for her. Husband has basically ruined her life. His combination of wealth and spite makes him very dangerous.

I was especially struck by the husband's swiping his ex-wife's cell phone while she was in the hospital (paragraph 119), letting his lawyer wear the ex-wife's wedding ring at her deposition (paragraph 129), creating "NCD" shirts (paragraph 136), and having some bizarre fetish with sunglasses (paragraphs 137-139).

DCUM gets a shout-out at paragraphs 51-52.


No holds barred. The Sidwell mom tries to bring another married woman into the fray at paragraph 16.
Anonymous
It's clear that both sides have used the complaints in lawsuits to get their side of the story out to the public. While I'd ordinarily feel sorry for Tara and Terry, they are the ones putting this information out there. There seem perfectly willing to take others into the mud with them. What a disaster for Sidwell.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Link to complaint - https://anonfiles.com/file/f0761844e58bfa421ab78bf7074d1220

Reading this makes me very sad for her. Husband has basically ruined her life. His combination of wealth and spite makes him very dangerous.

I was especially struck by the husband's swiping his ex-wife's cell phone while she was in the hospital (paragraph 119), letting his lawyer wear the ex-wife's wedding ring at her deposition (paragraph 129), creating "NCD" shirts (paragraph 136), and having some bizarre fetish with sunglasses (paragraphs 137-139).

DCUM gets a shout-out at paragraphs 51-52.


No holds barred. The Sidwell mom tries to bring another married woman into the fray at paragraph 16.


If half of what is in the most recent complaint is true, the Sidwell Dad (TN) is a VERY creepy guy: digging through her trash; hacking cell phone message; wearing sunglasses to his deposition. He acted as if he owned his exWife. Not cool.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Link to complaint - https://anonfiles.com/file/f0761844e58bfa421ab78bf7074d1220

Reading this makes me very sad for her. Husband has basically ruined her life. His combination of wealth and spite makes him very dangerous.

I was especially struck by the husband's swiping his ex-wife's cell phone while she was in the hospital (paragraph 119), letting his lawyer wear the ex-wife's wedding ring at her deposition (paragraph 129), creating "NCD" shirts (paragraph 136), and having some bizarre fetish with sunglasses (paragraphs 137-139).

DCUM gets a shout-out at paragraphs 51-52.


No holds barred. The Sidwell mom tries to bring another married woman into the fray at paragraph 16.


If half of what is in the most recent complaint is true, the Sidwell Dad (TN) is a VERY creepy guy: digging through her trash; hacking cell phone message; wearing sunglasses to his deposition. He acted as if he owned his exWife. Not cool.


Remember when she was banging the school shrink in a hotel room with their little girls locked in an adjoining room?
Anonymous
I don't know either of them, but it seems that TM was an unhappy wife and TN was a creepy stalker who was couldn't stand losing control of the wife he cheated on.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I don't know either of them, but it seems that TM was an unhappy wife and TN was a creepy stalker who was couldn't stand losing control of the wife he cheated on.

I totally agree.
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